Boyfriend still has online dating profile

16-Mar-2015 08:05 by 7 Comments

Boyfriend still has online dating profile

If I were in your shoes, I would say something along the lines of: “Hey listen…when we talked a little while ago, you said we’re exclusive… ” (I would listen for if their answer is a clear “yes” or if it’s some vague, weird, wishy-washy response…

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In this case, you know he goes on because you can see it.

To save everyone confusion though, I think ‘taking the profiles down’ should be talked about outright, likely in the exclusivity conversation, and not something that is just assumed.

Until a couple is exclusive, there’s really nothing wrong with being on a dating site.

Life is complicated and the heart wants what the heart wants. “When I saw this, it just doesn’t line up with someone who wants to be 100% exclusive. “Life is to short to spend our time, energy and youth on something that isn’t spectacular. I’m fine with either and if you don’t want that, we can part ways as friends – sincerely, no hard feelings.

Again, I don’t think it makes you bad, but I have to look out for myself. So if you do want an exclusive relationship with me, let’s go all the way. And if you do want it, let’s clear the slate and commit to that.” Now…

This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.

As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.

Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.

It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?

That is not to say that no effort goes into the relationship – my statement is that the work that the relationship takes doesn’t feel like effort… a meaningful contribution to something worthy, fulfilling and great.

People are so quick to snap up something half-hearted and then try to make that half-hearted relationship into something more.

And just seeing that someone has been active isn’t necessarily useful information- they could’ve been active for a variety of reasons.

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